True Love .....

*Coughs,Coughs* what is true love ?? This was the question that is ringing in my head for the past few days or even weeks.I have so many friends that are in a relationships.So many of them.They always said that the other party is always their true love and they will be their last,but after a few weeks,months they just broke up and to make matters worse,they "ignored" each other literally ignored the other party treating them like they don't even exists and become complete stranger.I sometimes wondered where would I find my true love too but after seeing the relationship that my friends have made me take a step back and think once again what is actually true love,it is just saying or is it just a confirmation to the other party so that they will be secured and after having fun with he/her then just act as complete stranger once again.A lot of question always comes into my mind when I talk about love and relationship etc., why can't couples that were used to be together become friends again like the time before they were in a relationship,that kind of relationship may be different but yet they are also memories and priceless.In a relationship it takes two hands to clap, how much effort one party puts in will never win two party even if they did not put so much effort compared to one party this is what I have observed from every broken relationship.Another thing is ,both parties always claim that they put in the effort but the question is how much do you put in,yes you may have more efforts compared to the one party but how much did you put in ? That is another story,I find that if I want to have a relationship, I would really want to a stable one. The first and the last, but that is almost impossible I think,the generation that Im living in has too many temptation but I think that I still can control myself.What I want to say to those couples out there is that you can have a relationship easily but it takes time and the commitment and the sense of responsibility to carry on that spark or relationship going.Don't take both parties for granted doesn't mean that the other party did not put in effort,me too don't have to put in the effort it does not work that way.If that was the case why bother starting a relationship and inflicting pain to one another.If you are afraid to take the first step and you really like the party a lot, just confess to him/her boldly at least you give a shot better than waiting till the 4 seasons change .. So I wish that all those in relationship last long and stay blissful :D